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Re: misbehavior/ :)

Posted by Nancy on April 12, 1999, at 15:56:23

In reply to Re: misbehavior, posted by Dr. Bob on April 11, 1999, at 11:32:08

I think I'm starting to understand what's happening, Doc. Also, it's absolutely true that mania can be devastating and destructive to one's self and to the witnessing parties. It's sad but true. Sometimes I don't know that I'm ill until the damage has begun (another sad fact). Fortunately, I have a therapist and a bipolar support group that is professionally led. I attend appointments at both once a week.

One aspect about my coping and self-management work, is that I must take time to understand the complete picture of a situation. Maybe too long for some, but I have to be sure. I do so to make sure that I'm thinking rationally instead of thinking from my bipolar disorder. I have to be careful about my thoughts and reactions, because I'm highly labile and reactive. Although I try very hard, I still have my infamous "oops" moments.

I'm beginning to get a better understanding of what's going on. Anyway, I think I am...sometimes, I don't see things very clearly.

It isn't easy being should try it sometime...hee hee hee. :) ;) :)

> > i agree with nancy that harry should have the same rights to express himself here and am asking that you please not censor him from participating...
> He does have the same rights. But those rights are limited. And he went too far. If others go too far, it's the last thing I would want to do, but I would "censor" them, too.
> A later post:
> > this forum is a very powerful tool.. and while i don't condone name calling or personal attacks, i do appreciate the fact that many here stepped forward to contain any damage and correct any misunderstandings
> Yes, and I think that's a wonderful thing about this forum, that people do take care of each other. But there's enough to help each other with already, I don't think we need name-calling, etc., added to that.
> I consider it a priority that people feel safe here. Otherwise, it's not an atmosphere that's very conducive to support and education.
> > we all have so much to learn from one another
> We do. I meant it when I said before that I hope he finds this a learning experience.
> And a post from Nancy:
> > I agree with v. Furthermore, Harry has been supportive and helpful to me. Please, don't block him from this forum. His pain is very much a part of the disorder that he tries so hard to live with. I feel that he has been reaching out and aggressively seeking help from us.
> I'm not saying he's never been helpful or didn't even in this case have good intentions or isn't in pain himself. But he was *too* "aggressive".
> > I have rages when I'm manic. But, that is not who I am. I'm not "misbehaving" while I'm manic. I'm JUST MANIC.
> I'm not sure I completely agree. Someone who's manic isn't necessarily *just* manic. They can also be manic *and* hurtful to others (or to themselves). I don't think it's always best just to let that go.
> > I suppose all the aforementioned is why society used to have the mentally ill chained down in tiny rooms of asylums, perform brain surgery to stop a patient who misbehaved.
> I suppose this is in fact on the same continuum as chaining someone down in a tiny room in an asylum, or performing brain surgery on them, but I hope it's not *quite* as bad...
> > What Dr Bob has called a behavioral problem in Harry is not a chronic condition... Can you say that you've read elsewhere on this board and found that Harry was doing harm? This is an isolated case. A single issue was raised to which Harry responded passionately.
> Well, I do think he went too far twice in this thread. I didn't do this after the first time. And I'm not saying I necessarily want to keep him blocked forever.
> > Can any of you say that there is not one issue in your life to which you've had a passionate response. An issue for which you or others insisted that you needed counsel. Whether that counsel came from a friend, a doctor, or your mother, makes no difference. Did you find help for that personally disturbing issue? Did those to whom you turned for counsel, whether it be that you turned to them in anger or in tears, abandon you?
> Whether someone you turn to abandons you can sometimes depend on the way in which you turn to them. Hopefully, that's the learning experience part of this.
> > I hope that I'm not misbehaving...really...not meant to be a fascicious statement. Should I even be writing about all concern? Is this issue taboo?
> Writing about ideas and concerns -- or about how I deal with things -- is not taboo. Being disrespecful of others is.
> Bob




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