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Posted by muffled on September 30, 2006, at 12:06:11
OK. I working on a theory. This ikid(inside kid) likes T. lots. Most of us like her. So I wondering if there's mebbe some probs w/the fact that we like her in our varying ways. Wether cuz she knows stuff, that how can she possibly beleive we ok? Mebbe T is just pretending to like us. Maybe its all a lie. Or mebbe its that there's still some idea on SOMEones part that there's something ugly bout us, that she scared to say cuz then she thinks T. will run away. Yeah, I think it must all be commming from that one kid primarily. Cuz if T.ran away, I'd be a little dissapointed, but a body has goto do what a body goto do, so that'd be fine. I'd just wish her well. But the ikid that I dealing with here seems to have a diff. 'connection', or perhaps, desire for connection? For some reason she must still think there's something wrong w/her. I don't think there is, but she REALLY thinks there is(bam-emot-shot, ouch). I wish she could somehow communicate it to adult me, cuz being as how she a kid, there's a huge probability she's blown something simple and rational out of proportion. My irl kid does that. She assumes I hate her cuz I chew her out for something else. We go over that one again and again. But how do I tell this kid? She must be listening, cuz she sent me an emotion just a minute ago....
I think she's hopeful, yet terribly afraid, and so, so sad. But she NOT destroyed, just scared. Hypervigilant all the time. I wish she could talk, but she don't. Mebbe she will when she less scared of me. Mebbe she needs to understand Jesus is with her, cuz I think maybe she afraid of evil too. Real afraid. Mebbe I can do visualization and she can see it too. Good thot.
She makes me real tired...So thats as far as I got. This i.kid is causing me alot of trouble. I need to deal w/her.
I dunno what to do?
Any ideas appreciated.
Thanks,
Muffled
Posted by TherapyGirl on September 30, 2006, at 12:28:23
In reply to excerpt from my journal re: an i.kid -any ideas?, posted by muffled on September 30, 2006, at 12:06:11
I don't know what to tell you, except for I like the way you're thinking this through and I think you have some good ideas (visualization, especially). Like irl kids, it may just take some time to build trust with her. Good luck with it.
Posted by Jost on September 30, 2006, at 22:58:02
In reply to excerpt from my journal re: an i.kid -any ideas?, posted by muffled on September 30, 2006, at 12:06:11
Muffy, I think you're doing it!
You;re feeling your way to understanding this particular ikid, and getting what she's trying to tell you (even if not with words). Sounds like you're doing a good job, too.She's getting through to you, and that's the first, important step in helping her figure out what she and you need to do, and how to do it.
I sense a new tone in some of what you write lately. It's a good one, too.
I'm glad for you! and hope you're feeling okay this weekend.
Jost
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