Posted by Phillipa on March 28, 2014, at 9:54:58
In reply to Re: divorce? » baseball55, posted by Partlycloudy on March 28, 2014, at 7:11:40
I do not envy you at all. Been there done that. At first the divorce was fine as I did have another man who I met shortly after the decision to divorce had been made by me. My ex also wanted to continue the marriage but still have his girlfriend (who has been his wife now for a good 15 years or more). So since I had known something was going to happen I had gone to RN school, and had a way to support both myself and kids. And having another man who supported me through it was fine. Now years later I wish somehow we could have worked it through as we have the three kids together all grown and miss the old memories. You have a difficult situation. I am deeply sorry for this. Each situation is so different and the people involved also. Would your husband agree to not seeing this woman ever again and agree to start all over again? If so I might give it another try. Phillipa
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