Posted by alexandra_k on July 22, 2013, at 21:55:18
I just went out and brought a bunch of food that doesn't need to be refrigerated or cooked. To reduce my need to go into the kitchen. Things are at the point where people are listening out for when I go into the kitchen so they can zip in there and figure some excuse for getting in my way / getting my attention. If I ask why (I've done so in the past) the answer is: 'because otherwise we never see you'. And / or: 'because we worry about whether you are okay'.
What part of: 'I just want a quiet place where I can write my thesis' is so f*ck*ng hard for people?
Again: What part of: 'I think I need to live by myself. Whenever I live with people they eventually get upset that I don't want to hang out with them. I just want a quiet place where I can write my thesis' is so f*ck*ng hard for people?
Again: What part of: 'I think I need to live by myself. Whenever I live with people they eventually get upset that I don't want to hang out with them. It gets to the point where I can't make a cup of coffee without them racing in to stand in front of the kettle and talk at me - and the reason I'm making coffee is because I'm stuck on a problem that I'm trying to focus through. I really just want a quiet place where people can leave me alone so I can just focus on writing my thesis' is so f*ck*ng hard for people?
I keep my shelf food on one shelf in the kitchen. People keep putting their things in my section of the shelf / moving some of my things to a different shelf section. I will now keep it in my room. If I arrive 5 minutes after my load of washing finishes I'll arrive to someone else groping through it (even though it is not at all constantly in use). I will now set my timer and make sure I'm waiting for it as the cycle finishes.
Why can't people take the AND BACK THE F*CK OFF signals and back the f*ck off?
Why?
poster:alexandra_k
thread:1047657
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