Posted by gorgeouslygrim on March 25, 2010, at 4:05:55
I have been with my husband for a total of 10 years. We will have our 5 year wedding anniversary this friday and... he doesn't seem to care. He has not mentioned anything about it to me really.This is not like him. In fact, the past few months he hardly ever talks to me at all. I do not think that he is cheating but I feel like he has definitly lost interest. I don't blame him though. I am bipolar and no one else in my family has really been as supportive as I need them to be, so why would he be? I am so lonely and feel like I have no control over the situation. When I try to have any conversation with him, he makes it seem like I am just nagging him. I don't know what to do anymore. I do not want a divorce but why be with someone who is not there for me? One of the most hurtful things he did recently was deny me his company when I was to the point of checking myself into a mental hospital. I begged him to take a day off of work and he kept using the excuse that we needed the money and that he didnt want to waste his paid vacation sitting at home. I am still hurt and unsure what to do. Any suggestions from the men out there?
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