Posted by 10derHeart on August 5, 2009, at 13:56:01
In reply to Re: Please follow site guidelines » Deputy 10derHeart, posted by BayLeaf on August 5, 2009, at 6:24:25
I hope I didn't say anything that gave the impression I think posters' desires are selfish - assuming "selfish" is seen as a negative thing. (I've learned there are several interpretations of that word.)
I certainly don't think that.
I have to believe people care about Deneb's needs *and* their own. However, I felt the posting behavior crossed over into pressuring, with 4 or 5 requests from at least 4 people on more than one board after she had said she wished to continue.
I am still having trouble seeing how civil and "innocent" (non-sexual, pressuring, demanding, etc.) so to speak, expressions of love for anyone, including Dr. Bob, are necessarily unhealthy behaviors. Maybe the discussion here will help:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20090707/msgs/910342.html
Dinah said about every single thing I feel and believe - and as usual, said it so much better and clearer than I could have done. I realize others see things differently, though.
-- 10der
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