Posted by Kath on June 30, 2009, at 18:40:42
In reply to Do good people use other people?, posted by HyperFocus on June 30, 2009, at 2:06:10
I think it depends on what type of 'using' you are referring to.
I think that a lot of people will go right to the limit of other people's boundaries. For example, if I listen kindly to someone's complaints, they might keep phoning me & complaining & maybe not ask me how I'm doing.
Or if someone borrows money from me, then pays it back & then asks again in an ongoing loop, they might keep doing that until I say I don't want to have them keep asking me to borrow money.
Kath
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