Posted by Frustratedmama on June 28, 2009, at 8:14:24
In reply to Re: It's so hard to know 'when' » Dinah, posted by Sigismund on June 28, 2009, at 5:32:49
I had to do this last year- hardest thing ever! Everyone told me I would "know when" and for a long time I doubted my decision. However, now I know that I did the right thing (actually might have waited longer than I should have). People tried to tell me things like "Is your dog able to do the things he likes to do?" and since he liked me and being pet I would answer "yes" but in reality, he couldn't walk well, was weak, had a hard time breathing, etc. I actually decided to do it because I didn't want him to die alone and I didn't want him to suffer anymore during the day while I worked. I want you to know that I have been there! I am here if you need someone to listen and I will be needing to make a decision again in the future (I have a 13 year old dog with diabetes who is on insulin and is getting weaker, more insulin dependant each month, and blind). SO I feel your pain, sorrow, and have shared your joys! Take care of yourself and do whatever you think is right. SOmetimes you "just know" as they say and sometimes you have to "just trust your inner gut feelings- even when you don't know for sure". Hope this helps a little! Take care!
FM
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