Posted by Dinah on August 4, 2007, at 16:23:51
In reply to What women want in men..is another woman!lol, posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on August 4, 2007, at 8:55:46
You think that's bad.
Try getting a date as a woman growing her leg hair, or pit hair.
Women tend to have wildly different views on body hair. Burt Reynolds looked like a woolly bear, and he didn't seem to have any trouble with women.
There is no one definition for what a woman is, any more than there is one definition on what a man is.
You know, there are lots of places where people will give you mock job interviews and give you tips to better help you get a job. Perhaps there are (or should be) places that do the same for dates, since dates aren't really that different than job interviews.
I'm not, of course, saying that you need one. I've never been on a date with you, and you may be perfection itself in the dating area. Moreover, the definition of perfection varies widely from person to person. But you've been mentioning your difficulties in the area a lot, and maybe some coaching would be useful for you.
(I'd love to get coaching in interpersonal relations. My therapist can't really help me with conversational rhythms, or things like that.)
For myself, I'm strongly in favor of getting to know people in nondating situations and developing a dating relationship from a friendship. But I'm probably a bit naive.
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