those with personality disorders....

Posted by alesta on January 30, 2007, at 8:58:39

are typically detested in social circles..maddening to others. i find myself having similar feelings about the disordered...i find their manipulations disgusting...any tips on how to be more tolerant? it is even worse when you can see manipulations that others don't...an unpleasant gift of mine.
i needed to air this...i need ways to deal with the personality disordered without losing my head...and their are quite a few of them in all venues of my existence right now...
btw these feelings are *normal* for normal people exposed to the personality-disordered. i think it's time we talk about them.
Amy

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those with personality disorders.... alesta 1/30/07
Re: those with personality disorders.... » alesta Glydin 1/30/07
Re: those with personality disorders.... NikkiT2 1/30/07
Re: those with personality disorders.... gabbi-2 1/30/07
Please be civil » alesta gardenergirl 1/30/07
Please rephrase » gabbi-2 gardenergirl 1/30/07
Re: Please rephrase Phillipa 1/30/07
Re: Sorry Phillipa 1/30/07
gabbi » gabbi-2 NikkiT2 1/30/07
Re: Please rephrase » gardenergirl gabbi-2 1/30/07
((glydin)) one woman cine 1/30/07
Re: Please rephrase one woman cine 1/30/07
Re: ((glydin)) » one woman cine Glydin 1/30/07
Re: those with personality disorders.... wishingstar 1/30/07
not hopeless... (nm) » wishingstar one woman cine 1/30/07
Re: Please rephrase » gabbi-2 gardenergirl 1/30/07
Re: Please rephrase gabbi-2 1/30/07
Manipulative? Declan 1/30/07
Re: Manipulative? one woman cine 1/30/07
Personality Disorders Declan 1/30/07
Nikki » NikkiT2 gabbi-2 1/30/07
Re: Manipulative? cubic_me 1/30/07
Re: Manipulative? Declan 1/30/07
Re: Manipulative? » Declan one woman cine 1/30/07
uhhh.... alesta 1/30/07
Is this post civil? Clockwork Ange 1/30/07
Re: Manipulative? Deneb 1/30/07
Re: uhhh....)) lets try again... » alesta Clockwork Ange 1/30/07
I was already given a PBC, Clockwork » Clockwork Ange alesta 1/30/07
Re: uhhh.... one woman cine 1/30/07
Re: uhhh....)) lets try again... one woman cine 1/30/07
Re: uhhh....)) lets try again... » one woman cine Clockwork Ange 1/30/07
Re: I was already given a PBC, Clockwork » alesta Clockwork Ange 1/30/07
I call do over ..... (nm) one woman cine 1/30/07
Re: I was already given a PBC, Clockwork » Clockwork Ange alesta 1/30/07
Re: uhhh.... » alesta ClearSkies 1/30/07
Re: uhhh....)) lets try again... » one woman cine ClearSkies 1/30/07
like others we believe alesta's intent as good zenhussy 1/30/07
Zen said it just right Alesta kid47 1/30/07
Re: uhhh....)) lets try again..+ a gentle reminder gardenergirl 1/30/07
I feel X is a moron » gardenergirl Declan 1/30/07
Re: I feel X is a moron » Declan Phillipa 1/30/07
Ya. Well, never mind then. (nm) gardenergirl 1/30/07
Re: uhhh....)) lets try again..+ a gentle reminder » gardenergirl alesta 1/30/07
im feeling... wishingstar 1/30/07
Re: uhhh....)) lets try again..+ a gentle reminder » alesta sleepygirl 1/30/07
Re: im feeling... nevermind wishingstar 1/30/07
(((((wishingstar))))) (nm) gardenergirl 1/30/07
Re: those with personality disorders.... tofuemmy 1/31/07
Re: those with personality disorders.... » alesta madeline 1/31/07
Re: those with personality disorders.... » tofuemmy sunnydays 1/31/07
sorry...will go work on self... alesta 1/31/07
alesta » alesta one woman cine 1/31/07
Re: sorry...will go work on self... » alesta ClearSkies 1/31/07
re; disparaging language,a gentle reminder » gardenergirl zazenduckie 1/31/07
Re: uhhh....)) lets try again..+ a gentle reminder » alesta NikkiT2 1/31/07
Re: alesta NikkiT2 1/31/07
Re: alesta one woman cine 1/31/07
Re: sorry...will go work on self... » alesta Larry Hoover 1/31/07
Re: alesta » one woman cine NikkiT2 1/31/07
Re: alesta one woman cine 1/31/07
above for nikki (nm) » one woman cine one woman cine 1/31/07
stigma's and apologies one woman cine 1/31/07
apologies » one woman cine NikkiT2 1/31/07
Heresy Declan 1/31/07
Re: Heresy » Declan gabbi-2 1/31/07
Re: re; disparaging language,a gentle reminder » zazenduckie gardenergirl 1/31/07
Personality Disorders » gabbi-2 Declan 1/31/07
Re: sorry...will go work on self... » alesta gardenergirl 1/31/07
Tried to help with 'gentle reminder' gardenergirl 1/31/07
Re: apologies » NikkiT2 alesta 1/31/07
note: i replied to gg via babblemail alesta 1/31/07
GG...had to do an online reply too..... » gardenergirl alesta 1/31/07
Please be civil » alesta ClearSkies 2/1/07
Re: apologies » alesta NikkiT2 2/1/07
Maybe over time Honore 2/1/07
Re: apologies » NikkiT2 alesta 2/1/07
yes, perhaps we should just give it time. alesta 2/1/07
Re: yes, perhaps we should just give it time. » alesta Larry Hoover 2/1/07
Well FWIW muffled 2/2/07
Re: blocked for week » alesta Dr. Bob 2/2/07
Re: Please rephrase that » gabbi-2 Dr. Bob 2/2/07
Muffled rocks! » Dr. Bob one woman cine 2/2/07
Re: Well FWIW » muffled Larry Hoover 2/2/07
Re: blocked for week Larry Hoover 2/2/07
Re: uhhh.... » alesta karen_kay 2/2/07
Thx guys (nm) muffled 2/2/07
Re: Thx guys elanor roosevelt 2/2/07
Please help me Dr. Bob » Dr. Bob gabbi-2 2/3/07
Re: Please rephrase - alesta Kath 2/3/07
Re: Please rephrase - alesta oops Gardengirl Kath 2/3/07
Re: Maybe I can help? » Kath All Done 2/4/07
Yeah, Kath » Kath gabbi-2 2/4/07
Re: Maybe I can help? » All Done Kath 2/4/07
All Done, Gabbi, Kath and anyone 10derHeart 2/5/07
posting as dep or poster?? pls clarify (nm) » 10derHeart zenhussy 2/5/07
Re: posting as dep or poster?? pls clarify » zenhussy 10derHeart 2/5/07
oh you flatter like GG!! *blush* (nm) » 10derHeart zenhussy 2/5/07
Nyahhhh- Keener! : ) » All Done gabbi-2 2/5/07
Re: Nyahhhh- Keener! : ) gardenergirl 2/5/07
Re: All Done, Gabbi, Kath and anyone » 10derHeart gardenergirl 2/5/07
Re: All Done, Gabbi, Kath and anyone » 10derHeart Kath 2/6/07
Re: thanks (nm) » gabbi-2 Dr. Bob 2/21/07

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