Posted by LJRen on December 31, 2006, at 10:10:02
In reply to I think I had a profound experience the other day, posted by Dinah on December 30, 2006, at 11:33:23
Do people think you're gay because you don't conform to the stereotypical dress of women? - I do.
I wear what's comfortable, which usually doesn't include tight fitting sexy clothes. Don't like taking the time to put on makeup. Wasn't born w/ the gene for big breasts, so either go braless or wear a sports-bra. And my hair, a lost cause. Used to be straight, now starting to turn curly!?!? So it's pulled up most of the time in a clip or ponytail. And because of all that, I'm automatically dubbed a lesbian. Lucky me. Don't have anything against gay people. But when you are straight and looking for a SO, you don't want to have to change who you are just to suit everybody else's preconceived notions.
So I totally get where you're coming from Dinah.