Posted by TexasChic on December 13, 2006, at 10:43:02
In reply to i'm horrible, posted by karen_kay on December 13, 2006, at 8:19:45
All societies have some sort of ritual to that effect, and its up to the adults to teach them to the children so that they can fit in and function like everyone else. If you were to be fair and take away every ritual of this sort, you'd be going around unbathed and naked. So why draw the line at heels? Maybe you could give just a little reminder to your neice that we're beautiful without the heels, but its fun to dress up.
As for the pain, are the shoes too small? You can get a bigger size and still be sexy! You can also get those inserts that keep your feet from sliding forward and feeling squished. My problem is just managing not to fall down (which isn't very sexy).
-T
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