Posted by TexasChic on October 30, 2006, at 18:19:17
In reply to Is there no safe place?, posted by Phillipa on October 29, 2006, at 21:42:10
Hey girl, I'm sorry you're feeling low. Just try to keep in mind that there will always be those people who strike out at others, and those people are most likely way more miserable than you will ever be. Also there is the subject I've harped on forever about how easy it is to misinterpret things written online. So try not to take those things personally. Those people don't know you and can't possibly make an accurate judgement of you. So why care?
As for your husband, would he consider counseling? I know some men won't. If that's the case you might ask your T about some things to do specifically concerning your marital relationship. Of course it would be even better if he would go with you and the two of you could get to the bottom of things together. Otherwise, if you're completely miserable with him, maybe you need to make a change. The thing I always think when I hate my life is: okay, the only person who can change MY life is ME. So what am I going to do about it?
Anyway, I hope you feel better soon! You know you have alot of friends here.
-T
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