Posted by corafree on September 20, 2006, at 14:43:23
In reply to Re: SOMEBUTTIES HELPED ME, BUTT **trigger** » corafree, posted by gardenergirl on September 20, 2006, at 9:30:55
<If only that were a simple question. I think what the "right thing to do" depends so much on the specific situation and context, and what's best for you and for all involved. I'm not qualified, personally or professionally, to answer that for you. I'm sorry. I can tell you're looking for reassurance and help in figuring out what to do.>
You're right. I should ask a professional this sort of thing, then even they may say, and be right, that I need to answer that question myself. I'm holding a double-edged sword of sorts, and could hurt the 'children'(?); well yes they are young adults, 21, 29, and 30. But still, to my own detriment, I'd give them my last dime. Right now, we're all 'not talking'. There's silence. I did 'tell' what he said and how it hurt. Here again, feeling I may need to rescue them. (I know.)
It's know it's easy to see I'm not doing well at all GG. (Just as I said that, a huge gust of desert wind blew up, all my doors slammed shut. Now it's gone) I posted somewhere the onset of some feelings similar to those associated w/ the nervous breakdown I had early last year. Maybe I'm tired or something.
asallways, cf
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