Posted by Susan47 on January 12, 2006, at 10:54:58
In reply to Re: repeating old patterns? need advice!, posted by crazy teresa on January 11, 2006, at 19:43:32
> I agree.
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> Maybe it'd be wise to start keeping a diary of all the calls and drive by's you see. Then if she crosses the line when she's confronted, Jen could show it to her or the authorities if it ever became necessary.
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> Another option which I didn't think of earlier, is to maybe make her dislike you... But that could be ugly too.
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> I'm sorry you've got to deal with this.
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Me, too. Keeping a diary of all of it is a really good idea, that's what anyone any lawyer or police officer would tell someone to do. (Scary to think that's what my ex-therapist was doing to me ... and I PUT someone in that position, that's what's really horrible!) ... but Jenstar should do that for sure. Just as a back-up plan if all else failed.. but I still think Jenstar can do it somehow and still be honest, because making someone dislike you can really backfire. Treat someone like an enemy, and in no time, they are an enemy.
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