Posted by JenStar on January 9, 2006, at 21:33:06
hi all,
I suppose it's sometimes hypocritical for me to criticize others for falling into their same patterns, because I do it too.Recently I sort of "became friends" with a woman who I don't really like. She lives near me and does drive by's all the time, and calls incessantly. Even if I don't pick up the phone, I have caller ID, and some days she calls like 6-7 times, but doesn't leave a message - she just calls and calls. We're very casual acquaintance friends, but she is trying to be more. And I don't want to. And I don't know how to make her stop, because I'm afraid to hurt her feelings, even though I don't like her, and I don't want to hang out with her.
She's unstable (not like I'm NOT...and not like that is necessarily a problem) but she's unstable in a way I don't respect. She's trying to squeeze money out of someone with a fraudulent lawsuit, and she has these weird schemes, and she kind of freaks me out. I wish she'd leave me alone.
But how do I say it? What do I do?
Advice is appreciated!thanks,
JenStar
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