Posted by Tamar on October 15, 2005, at 22:51:19
In reply to Re: The reason I am asking! tell me what you think! » Tamar, posted by happyflower on October 15, 2005, at 22:35:51
> Is there any possibility you want to get back at your husband for his indiscretion? Or are you simply missing the physical side of marriage?
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> There could be a little bit of both of this going on. I am angry because his indiscretion hasn't been resolved and I want to talk about it, and he won't. I deserve to know if he is in love with this women. And I defineltly know I miss the intimitmcy ( i can't even spell it anymore). I miss being loved and touched. :(Yes. I can imagine. I’ve never had to go so long without it as you have, and I must admit I don’t deal well with abstinence at all. It’s a part of my character that’s particularly weak. I think perhaps if you can enjoy the flirtation without it developing into anything more, then why not do just that! But if you think you will be tempted to take it further… well, it’s probably not a good idea at the moment. And there’s also the possibility that a flirtation will remind you all the more of what you’re missing at home. But yeah, if you can enjoy it then just enjoy it.
I’m sorry things are so hard for you at the moment.
> If I put my panties under my pillow, will the sex fairy come and grant me my wish tonight? LOL
ROFL! Go for it! Anything’s worth a try!
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