Posted by happyflower on October 15, 2005, at 22:35:51
In reply to Re: The reason I am asking! tell me what you think! » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 15, 2005, at 19:01:28
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> It’s always nice to be noticed, isn't it?!Yes, it feels good! :)
Is there any possibility you want to get back at your husband for his indiscretion? Or are you simply missing the physical side of marriage?
There could be a little bit of both of this going on. I am angry because his indiscretion hasn't been resolved and I want to talk about it, and he won't. I deserve to know if he is in love with this women. And I defineltly know I miss the intimitmcy ( i can't even spell it anymore). I miss being loved and touched. :(
> I would say… talk to your T about how you feel about flirting and being noticed at the moment. It’s hard for stuff like that to feel natural in a situation where there are problems between you and your husband. I can imagine that a flirtation might be simultaneously exciting and terrifying right now.
Tamar, you always have such sound advice! :) Yes this is a good topic for therapy. But it will have to wait over 3 weeks before I see him again. Who knows how I will feel then! LOL If I put my panties under my pillow, will the sex fairy come and grant me my wish tonight? LOL
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