Posted by TexasChic on September 21, 2005, at 15:31:35
In reply to Re: Serious sensitive subject - sex- may be offens » TexasChic, posted by Racer on September 20, 2005, at 20:10:52
> Believe it or not, this is a serious answer: consider getting a cat.
Actually I have a cat. I think I'd be totally insane without him. It does definitely help with the loneliness.
> Sorry I can't offer anything better than that. What I will say, though, is that I have had my best luck meeting lovers when NOT looking. If I'm looking for a relationship, I won't find anything. If, on the other hand, I'm not looking for anything in particular, then I seem to be hard to resist... Met my spouse at match.com at a time when all I wanted was casual dating. Turned out that the third or four person I met was The Right One for me. {shrug} It happens...
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> By the way, I think I was 35 when that happened...Now THAT'S encouraging! I guess I get to feeling that since I haven't had a serious relationship by this time in my life, its never going to happen. I know that's not necessarily true, but I just have to convince my brain to accept that.
Thanks!
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