Posted by tamar on August 8, 2005, at 15:00:29
In reply to Tamar, posted by crushedout on August 8, 2005, at 11:45:06
> I hope my question wasn't *too* pointed. I didn't mean to pry.
No, it was just right. Any less direct and I probably would have sidestepped it! And you did make it clear I didn’t have to answer. I thought for a nanosecond of simply saying I was married but it didn’t seem honest to do that.
> I just find it hard sometimes feeling like one of the only lesbians on here. And I like knowing that other women feel attracted to women (it gives me hope!) even if they identify primarily as heterosexual.
I think I can imagine what you mean. I get the impression there aren’t very many lesbians here. However, it does feel like a very safe environment in which to be gay. It's probably possible to be a bit flirtatious without people taking offence.
> I also have serious problems with heterosexuality because I want to marry a straight woman. :(
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> I'm not really joking. Got my work cut out for me.Ah. It sounds as if you’re speaking of someone in particular… no? On one hand, I don’t think sexual orientation is fixed; I’m sure you could persuade a straight woman to give her gay side an airing! But on the other hand, would it be frustrating to spend hours teaching her how to do it? (Maybe that’s a silly question…)
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