Posted by caraher on August 8, 2005, at 13:13:00
In reply to Tamar, posted by crushedout on August 8, 2005, at 11:45:06
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> I hope my question wasn't *too* pointed. I didn't mean to pry. I just find it hard sometimes feeling like one of the only lesbians on here. And I like knowing that other women feel attracted to women (it gives me hope!) even if they identify primarily as heterosexual.
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> I also have serious problems with heterosexuality because I want to marry a straight woman. :(
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> I'm not really joking. Got my work cut out for me.I didn't mean to sound critical of you for the question, crushedout, I just wanted to applaud Tamar's forthright answer.
It seems like a lot of women I've known are all over the map on "what to call" their sexual orientation. Even one of the "most heterosexual" women I've known has mentioned messing around with one of her high school friends, and I know a couple more who at various times as declared themselves "definitely" lesbian or not lesbian then subsequently and quite openly drifted all over the spectrum.
I guess one never knows for certain what tomorrow will bring...
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