Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 12, 2005, at 12:34:36
In reply to Admin threads making me hurt, posted by partlycloudy on June 12, 2005, at 7:02:34
> Too many words, meaning not clear. Intent on multiple threads *feel* less than helpful. I avoid conflict when I am unarmed with the right words, when I interpret posts as bait for me to respond quickly in confusion and frustration. Posts are not directed at me personally, but I feel teased and taunted by having words, phrases, sentences swirl around me when I read them, like so many throws of a rope, to be tightened by my own ineptness if I attempt to reply. So I stay away, very upset and on the defensive but unable to respond with any effectiveness. I can't say I have ever enjoyed a good debate...
I hear you. You really need thick skin over there sometimes. Take heart, dear.
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thread:511364
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