Posted by gardenergirl on March 3, 2005, at 14:48:51
In reply to Re: Shoot, it's almost 2 a.m. NOW I'm crying? » gardenergirl, posted by 10derHeart on March 3, 2005, at 1:49:26
>I think it's because...when we KNOW, in our heart of hearts, the words of compassion and caring are so genuine, so just right, they touch us in a deep place, just below where the painful dissapointment is trying to stay hidden, and help release it. It's rather abrupt, though. And the release, though needed, hurts, too, in a different way. Does that make some sense...if an intuitive, emotional explanation can make *sense?*
Oh, this makes a lot of sense. Thanks. I think that's exactly it.
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> There's a bit (or a LOT, in my case) of that child still inside us. Perhaps without knowing it, when you posted to let us know whathad happened, you were *scanning the room.*That could be part of it, too. I did want to know what others' thought. But I also felt a bit embarrassed that I had even posted it in the beginning since it didn't work out.
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> So I'm glad you can be both brave AND let yourself cry, too. Sounds awfully healthy to me ((gg)) :-)Thanks. It does kinda feel healthy in an odd way. I guess because it's more real. And that's what I supposed to be working towards...my real self.
Your post was very comforting. Thank you.
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