Posted by jay on February 13, 2005, at 19:58:48
In reply to Re: She wrote back...I replied....what you think? » jay, posted by alexandra_k on February 13, 2005, at 18:08:37
> > Well...just have a look at my post to Gabbix up above, and it may be a little clearer why I did what I did.
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> Oh sure, I think I understand the *why*.
> It is just that the way in which we say things has a great impact on the way in which people are likely to respond to us.
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> >She responded out of guilt, it's very obvious.
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> And I might add *defensiveness*
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> >I will just go along, and could really care-a-less what happens to her. That is what it has come to.
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> Ya. Time to move on...
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>Yes...that's the point...keep my mental health in good shape and move on. Thanks. :)
Jay
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