Posted by karen_kay on June 25, 2004, at 10:23:23
In reply to workplace flirting!, posted by octopusprime on June 25, 2004, at 9:48:35
i need a bit of workplace flirting. i think i need a workplace first, though don't i?
snoozin soosin, workplace flirting is the best! i'm glad that you are having some fun at work now. just beware if it's your boss (though that may have some benefits too! liquid lunches on him! yahooo!).
now, about your friend. hmmm, i'm trying to think of a positve to this. and i really can't. i guess that maybe since you two lost contact, and she's probably been very busy trying to have a child, maybe it slipped her mind to inform you dear. is that a possibility? instead though, perhaps you can continue to be a wonderful friend to her by attending the party and lettign her know how much you miss her. i know i frequently 'neglect' my very close friends (once time my best friedn didn't hear form me for about 2 years straight) and it takes them saying 'get your head out of your rear and realize that we need to talk more often' before i actually do realize what i've been missing out on. perhaps you could call to congratulate her and strike up a conversation? maybe that'll bring the spark back.
but, i know it still hurts dear. maybe the way to heal that hurt is to try picking up whre you left off. obvioulsy you are still in her htoughts, but maybe you need to push a little to be in her thoughts a bit more often, as you both will benefit...
take care dear,kk
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