Posted by Magdalena on April 16, 2004, at 11:41:59
In reply to Re: married » Magdalena, posted by kittycat on April 16, 2004, at 5:20:28
hey kittykat, i know how difficult it is and its been 4 years since i left that relationship and only now am i starting to really deal with the after effects. I really want a normal relationship where there is no insecurities and complete trust but then i wonder does anyone really have that? what defines normal? I think the fact that we are trying this again, shows that maybe we arent as 'relationship deviant' as we think, and somehow this could be the very thing that can help us heal.
I'm glad you posted and yes it does sound like we are in the very same boat, what i have realized is that its normal to have insecurities but not to dwell on them because that can have its own devestating effects...easier said than done i know but i am working on it;)Are u also on Lexapro? i am on paxil and its only been a little over a month, still sleepy and tired as hell, hopeing to get over that though.
Thanks for sharing with us, i hope you get the courage to post again, everyone here is so wonderful and helpful.:)
you are not alone.}
Magdalena
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