Posted by TexasChic on March 31, 2004, at 12:42:52
In reply to Lonely, posted by lonelygirl on March 29, 2004, at 21:10:33
I understand and feel the same. My therapist always suggests the same thing over and over: church groups. She knows good and well that I had church shoved down my throat growing up by a control freak of a father who was also a preacher (and mentally unstable). You were expected never to question anything – doubting was a sin. It was such a cult. When I realized there was a whole other world out there, I made my choice and never looked back.
I think everyone should be entitled to their own beliefs without persecution. I have nothing but respect for people who have found their place with religion. I just wish more people felt the same about my non-religious beliefs. The worst part is when someone questions my morals. I usually reply, "So you only refrain from killing people because your church tells you to?"
Anyway, I didn't mean to go on a tangent. I've just been disturbed about this alot lately. But back to wanting to meet people. My first step will be moving out of my Grandmother's house. I've been her caregiver for 6 years and now my mom is going to take over. So my life has been on hold for a while. My therapist is afraid I may isolate myself once I move out (I have in the past), but I told her I'm ready to do whatever it takes.
I think its especially difficult being a 34 year old single woman. Most people my age are married. And since I really don't want to meet people in bars, I'm going to have to get creative. I think first off I'm going to do something for me, like taking a sculpture or painting class. Then at least I'll have a more creative outlet to pass the time, rather than feeling sorry for myself.
So I'll let you know if I discover any secret ways to meet people. Good luck to yall as well!
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