Posted by inthegloaming on February 28, 2004, at 9:58:38
In reply to Re: Fluoxetine and Alcohol, posted by deirdrehbrt on February 26, 2004, at 21:50:45
> My personal opinion is that when a person is incapacitated, no-one should take advantage of them. You have every right to be upset.this is true... that's the crappy part. what everyone keeps saying, though, is that she was drunk too, blah blah, not in her right mind... the worst part for me is that she knew about my touch-issues and i'd had talks with her about previous events kinda like this one (one happened back at home--wasn't as extensive but still scary) and i'd told her that sometimes i was afraid something had happened to me when i was little and just didn't remember... yet she still tried to do stuff with me anyway and continued to do so when i was obviously not participating.
> Depending on the laws in your state, the event, as you described it could be considered a sexual assault.
but i didn't say 'no....' if i'd said it she'd have stopped. is it still assault then?
> what I said above is what I would have told a caller. I would have also told them that they were not at all at fault. You were not at all at fault. You have nothing at all to be ashamed of.
but i should have said something... should have said no... i just... well, my doctor said i kind of dissassociated myself away and that it was easier with the alchohol in me. ugh. dunno.
> I'm sorry that this happened to you. You didn't deserve it. You did nothing that warranted the behavior of the other person. You aren't dirty, you aren't bad. You are just someone who was taken advantage of. You are someone who has a right to every single feeling you are feeling right now.
> Take care of you,
> ((((((((((inthegloaming)))))))))))thank you so much, dee. i can't tell you what it means to me that you wrote all this. so... so thank you, i guess, is all i can say.
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