Posted by Jai on November 21, 2003, at 13:06:57
In reply to Cant get over ex! HELP!!, posted by JimD on November 14, 2003, at 12:42:09
> I'm a gay guy living in a small town. I spent two years of my life dating a guy, who has since cast me to the curb. I fell head over heals for this guy...
In my life the falling head over heels...part of love.. is certainly a tip off that there was something about this person that I wanted from the first meeting. It presents it's self like a mystery...falling...head over heels...picture the image. No self control....maybe not even a choice...just tumbling and tumbling into this bliss. With a fall like that there is sure to be reality on it's heels. Reality is that this person may not be that perfect, incredible, un-real person who first we see...maybe a projection of something we have craved all our lives? Maybe the fleeting sense of the LOVE of our lives? Maybe a part of ourselves that we cannot see? No doubt, it feels like an addiction...so much fun at first. Maybe this makes sense to you, maybe not, but that's what I see inside of me when this happens to me. It becomes a puzzle to unravel. An onion to peel. A life to figure out. I hope this helps. Jai
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