Posted by Tabitha on September 14, 2003, at 23:06:09
In reply to fallsfall?, posted by kara lynne on September 14, 2003, at 22:54:49
Hi KL, see if this helps.. do you ever try to talk to your own little girl self? She's gotten the message that she's not OK, that if she were only better, he would have tried harder, so there must be something wrong with her. She thinks it's her fault he left, because she's not good enough, and she's desperate to change that. She just wants to feel good enough and lovable. You can tell her this.. tell her it's not her fault she left, tell her you don't blame her, and that you'll take care of her and love her all the time, no matter if there's a man in your lives or not. Picture holding her and comforting her. Only you can soothe her pain right now. Calling the 'ex' won't do it. She needs you.
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