Posted by jane d on July 26, 2003, at 20:50:15
In reply to Re: Very nicely done! :) » Dinah, posted by CherC68 on July 26, 2003, at 19:20:50
> Dear Dinah,
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> I'm sorry but I am not understanding what was so nicely done. All the girls read the response by Dr. Bob or the apology, but unless there are seven of us girls that are really super slow (I am the least intelligent or book smart of all the girls)we didn't get it. We didn't understand the apology of sorts at all.
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> Also, as a monitor - I've read a few of your posts and I see that you have OCD - do you put time limits on your ability to post?
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> The girls didn't know if you worked directly for Dr. Bob or what and seen the amount of your postings in social and there seems to be more from you than others. I think they were also worried about being in social because it makes us feel like everything we say is going to be scrutinized - and let me tell you - trying to find our posts is very hard.
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> I do thank you for your trying to make us understand how things worked - and I doubt this posting is going to work. Looks like for the first time since I've been on psycho babble - my name and password are gone - have I been booted? I shall soon see.
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> If you are just like the rest of us girls, our apologies to you, we do not want to make you feel bad or disrespect your "social" space. If you are just a worker for Dr. Bob - then hopefully you could understand - there are a lot of messed-up unhappy girls because of the last few days.
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> CherCher,
I'd also like to welcome you and your friends to this board. I think that if you have a little patience many of the things that confuse you now will become clear. Many of us had to spend a lot of time reading the other posts when we first started posting to figure out what was happening here and how things worked.One thing you said did worry me a little bit however:
"being in social because it makes us feel like everything we say is going to be scrutinized". Don't forget that all of these boards are public boards - and that everything you say on them will be read by many people now and in future years. Don't be misled into thinking you are in a private place just because few people are answering your posts. There are tons of private groups on the internet (and it takes minutes to create your own) but this isn't one of them. To my mind that's one of the things that makes it great.Jane
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