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On second thought or what I learned in therapy :)

Posted by Brio D Chimp on June 30, 2003, at 17:08:48

In reply to Re: just a comment » yesac, posted by Brio D Chimp on June 30, 2003, at 16:27:23

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> > > 7. I'm depressed too but I got up and went to work this morning. (which proves you're not as depressed as I am)
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> 8. I just wanted to say that even though I'm sure that in many cases, being able to get up and go to work does mean the person isn't as depressed, not necessarily in every case. I have ALWAYS gotten up and gone to work/school/whatever. Always, except for a few days here and there. But I have been extremely suicidally depressed, even at those times. It just doesn't affect me like that. No, I didn't WANT to go, dreaded going... but my energy has never been "sapped" by depression. In fact, I often can't stand staying in bed. I'm too fidgety, agitated, etc. Most of the time I would love to because there is just nothing at all that I want to do or feel like I can handle doing. But I just must get up. For a long time I thought this meant that I wasn't as depressed as a lot of other people, but I've since realized that that simply isn't true.
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> It's not a contest! but your comment made me feel really put down and bad. I'm sure lots of people who said those other things meant them too and thought they were true. You know some people who have agitated depressions get TOO agitated to go to work. I'm not depressed at all now. But I know that being unable to function is more disabling than being able to function but being depressed in some other way so maybe I should rephrase that to: which proves you're not depressed LIKE I am. Thanks for proving my point tho. I feel really bad.


That was MY answer to comments like that not YOURS! So you rephrase your answer to it if it bothers you but my answer is the same and whether you agree with it is irrelevant for me!!!!! (although you can put my answer on YOUR list of worst things to say to you and answer it any way you want to :) Ahh a breath of freedom! I'm not responsible for other people disagreeing with me!! They're my feelings! NO EXCUSES AND NO EXPLANATIONS


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