Posted by Rach on February 14, 2003, at 23:53:39
In reply to Alone On Valentine's Day, posted by kara lynne on February 14, 2003, at 22:46:50
I've been in a very similar situation. In fact, I was supposed to meet up with him on Valentine's Day. I was giving him One Last Chance. It was probably Last Chance number 2000. He stood me up.
These guys will keep doing this to us. Because we are allowing them to do it. It's the perfect situation for them. Well, not any more. I am no longer going to allow this guy to use me as a doormat. I don't care about what he says to me today, tomorrow, or the next. I will be deaf to his pleas, his promises, his excuses. Because I know in my heart that he will continue to take and take and not ever give me anything securely and surely back.
This is not love. It's abuse. I deserve better, and so do you, Kara. Get out.
Good luck. x
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