Posted by Dinah on January 14, 2003, at 9:34:39
In reply to Re: Miller, How did it go today? » Dinah, posted by Miller on January 14, 2003, at 1:05:58
It sounds as if you've known him longer than was my impression, and I'm glad he isn't trying to isolate you from other alternatives.
Miller, sweetie, I want you to know that I wasn't suggesting caution because I didn't trust your judgement. I just worry whenever anyone (myself included - because if you'll recall I have this problem myself) has all their eggs in one basket. I hope you can use this time to build up a social support system, group therapy, psychiatrist, whatever you might need so that if by any chance this doesn't work out, you won't feel that you have no other options. Your online shrink suggested this and I think it's a great suggestion. While you're feeling cared for and safe with him is a wonderful time to reach out and build safety elsewhere as well. It doesn't mean you can't continue to feel safe with him, it's just safer for you to have more than one place to feel safe.
Dinah
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