Posted by Dinah on January 13, 2003, at 19:50:53
In reply to Re: Miller, How did it go today? » Dinah, posted by Miller on January 13, 2003, at 18:43:20
He had nothing to say about disappointing you? Then I must confess he does not seem to be the proper therapist for you. My therapist has disappointed me dozens of times, as is natural in any relationship (especially such a lop sided one). But he always took my distress seriously and talked it through with me.
I would be less than honest, though, if I didn't echo some of the concern that others expressed. You seem to be becoming very vulnerable very quickly to the online psychologist who I believe you just met? I would hate to see you hurt again. Your mention to Lou of having recently come to understand perfect love gave me a twinge of concern. I don't mean to say that anything is wrong. I hope he/she is as wonderful as you percieve. Just be careful, Miller, dear.
As to the recent dustup causing me to leave, I'm not so easy to be rid of. :) I have lived through far larger conflicts on the board, although admittedly I have come and gone more than a few times. But I have a relationship with the board itself that is healthier than it once was, I think.
Take care of yourself Miller. You can do it better than anyone else.
Dinah
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