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Re: Please help me, I am so lonely and wish I was dead

Posted by ROO on December 18, 2002, at 9:00:47

In reply to Please help me, I am so lonely and wish I was dead, posted by PhoenixGirl on December 18, 2002, at 0:18:44


"I believe in the Beatles song "All You Need Is Love". It's like food, you have to have it to survive. I'm a very loving
person, I have so much love in my heart for everyone and everything that feels. I don't want anyone to ever feel the
way that I do."


You sound like a very loving person, and sure of your ability to love. I admire
that about you. What I hate most about depression is that it usually makes me feel
incapable of love, and that's a real ugly feeling. I'm glad you don't feel that way--it's
a gift that you see yourself as a loving person...with lots of love in her heart to give.

As trite as it sounds, it does sound like you need to pour some of that love into yourself.
Also I can see you doing some really beautiful volunteer work....it could really help ease
some of that loneliness, give some of that love away and get some back. I bet you'd be really
good at it.

I wish I could give you a big hug and have a cup of tea with you and talk. I hate that
you're feeling so lonely and worst of all, hopeless. But it's not hopeless. I'm not
psychic or anything, but I just got this feeling while reading your post that things are going
to work out for you...you're really young, only 24, and there's plenty of time for you to work
things out. Because you feel you have so much love in your heart...I think once you learn to
love yourself...maybe "re-mother" yourself since you obviously did not have nurturing parents...I can
easily see you (once you've done that work) finding someone who sees how beautiful you are on the INSIDE
and thanking their lucky stars they have such a deep, loving partner.

Hang in there...it will get better.


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