Posted by jay on August 30, 2002, at 4:44:09
In reply to Re: Gosh, Jay, posted by ~~tabitha~~ on August 30, 2002, at 4:19:08
> I can't believe you think the dating scene is dead at 32. Here I am at 39 and it looks like all the dating is happening to the 20's and young 30's crowd.
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> I can't say what you might do to attract more women. For me I do worst when I'm feeling needy. People can sense it and it frightens them off. You need to project an air of being content with yourself, yet open to others. I haven't quite mastered it myself but I think I'm improving.
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> I think dressing well is a plus for men, so good for you. I always look for a little style in a guy. I hope the cologne isn't too overpowering though.Well..I think in our '30's'..with so many families..and friends with families, it gets depressing. (What else is new.) Thanks for your compliment...and no I just wear a 'dab' of Eternity..my fav.
I think I do project that air of confidence a bit..maybe not on here as much. But I am the "quiet and confident" type at times too. Also..I don't 'chase' women..maybe a flaw..I don't know. But, if I drop a solid hint, and she rejects, it's like "ohh well...too bad...(and I have to say..*their* loss..lol!)
Why can't deep male sensitivity, a nurturing personality, all of those things be a plus for guys? No I don't watch football, no I don't like 'cars' and drink beer with 'the boys'..yadda yadda...and it p*sses me off when a women get's so googly eyed over a "macho" guy.
I dunno...ooohhh...I just dunno...please..answers..ha!
Thanx,
Jay
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