Posted by mist on March 6, 2002, at 23:05:39
I am a lifelong hermit (other than going to work) and need to break the pattern. I need to do something social. But I'm not that motivated. Any ideas for things I could force myself to do after work to meet people? I have no idea what "normal" people (non-hermits) do. I have done some social things in the past but never made it into a lifestyle. It's hard to work up enthusiasm for it yet at the same time I don't like always being alone. I have some friends I ocassionally talk to but have lost interest in seeing them. I would rather meet new people (at least theoretically) but I'm not gregarious. I like lying in bed with the blinds drawn listening to the radio. But at the same time, I hate it.
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thread:19438
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