Posted by judy1 on February 18, 2002, at 15:47:23
In reply to Re: Anyone with transferance/counter-tran experience? » judy1, posted by Dinah on February 18, 2002, at 8:48:17
I think the transference does refer to feelings of rage from my past, which I agree is helpful and isn't that what the shrink is striving for? I don't believe he would admit to the counter-transference, I see it because I have been a victim of it before (when my ex-shrink crossed boundaries and terminated) and I sought help from a psychologist who explained what had occurred. So I guess I feel he needs to acknowledge that along with the great # of times when he tells me I'm being 'over-sensitive'. If he accepts some responsibility maybe we could have a better relationship, but I don't see it happening. Like I said I lack the courage to confront and possibly lose him. Take care, judy
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