Posted by trouble on February 18, 2002, at 2:33:37
In reply to disturbing card, posted by sar on February 15, 2002, at 17:20:58
> i don't think they're making up with me, this has happened thousands of times,
Like Noa says Sar, YOU are changing and that's what counts.
A psychic gave me a piece of advice regarding my own ma that turned out to be true. She said, "This relationship will never change but the more YOU heal the more the relationship will heal."
Another thought came from a friend right after my mom died, she said
At last you can have a real relationship with her.Sorry if this sounds vapid (it did to me), but both predictions turned out to be as fully realized as the more linear counsel I'd been offered, especially the latter remark.
I do sometimes find myself wishing my mother was still here b/c NOW I KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO HER, but then I realize that it's enough if I finally know what to say to her, as it damn well better be since we both know that dead or alive my mom has deaf ears.
Sounds like your parents may be similarly afflicted.
trouble
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