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Re: Suffering from Breakup...new here....help! (long) Just Me33

Posted by JayMac on August 27, 2008, at 21:34:21

In reply to Suffering from Breakup...new here....help! (long), posted by Just Me33 on August 27, 2008, at 15:13:56

Just Me,
Wow, it sounds like everything was going great, then you hit a hard place. It seems to me like he possibly overreacted and it got him re-thinking the move/relationship. I understand that although it was only 4 months, but when you think you met "the one," then time does not seem to matter the same way. Closure is a tricky thing. Sometimes I think we mistake closure for acceptance. Acceptance is taking something as truth, even if you don't like what's given, even if you don't like that it's true.

You must be devastated. I'm sorry for your loss. Hang in there! He could come around, and if he doesn't, then there's somebody even BETTER waiting for you in the future (even though it's difficult to imagine that right now). Losing the one's you love is very hard, but I hope you can find some peace in the mess that surrounds you.

Take Good Care,
JayMac


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