Posted by MidnightBlue on September 12, 2006, at 17:06:09
In reply to Marriage, posted by rfs on September 3, 2006, at 18:14:21
A couple of things to think about. You said your wife had had spine surgery and she was out of shape. Could she be in PAIN? That might explain why she doesn't want to be pushed, why she asks for your help.... Menopause all by itself is enough to make her miserable!
You must have married her for a reason. I imagine she had some of those traits when you married her. I think you both could have a good marriage if you try. Get physically healthy first and then both of you should consider therapy. I imagine she is a little bit frustrated with you, too.
MidnightBlue (married over 30 years)
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