Posted by sibemom on March 12, 2006, at 13:11:42
In reply to Re: I think we are falling apart, posted by Susan47 on March 12, 2006, at 10:26:06
Thank you for the reply's. Yes I have no idea what is up with my husband. If I knew that I would be able to hang up my own sign that says "INTENSE THERAPY" but I just don't know. I am glad I found this forum not only for this segment of it but for the support and info on the medication part. THIS TOTALY SUCKS FOR ME. I do try and find people who I can talk to when the days get overwhelming but you know you really find out who your friends are when things like this happen and you find out HOW FEW YOU REALLY HAVE. My mom is a good support person though and I talk to her alot. Maybe some of this is my fault to because I have always been the one to HANDLE things and now maybe he just has no idea what to do. I know it sounds stupid but that could be where this is at. It's like he is so worried about HIS STUFF and how this affects HIM he is blind to the fact that this is affecting US. Sometimes I don't think he realizes there is an US. When he got hurt and could no longer do the job he use to and with his health condition I had no problem stepping up to the plate and being the primary wage earner. I am not expecting a pat on the back for that but it was easy for me, it had to be done so I did it. You know we are at the age where our life should be all set, we are not YOUNGSTERS JUST STARTING OUT. I am 46, and he is 50. I don't know one day at a time is the way to go, because right now I have a hard enough time getting up in the morining much less to deal with this. Thanks for the support.
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