Posted by Miss Honeychurch on December 10, 2004, at 9:01:02
In reply to Oh Toph, posted by alexandra_k on December 10, 2004, at 1:18:13
I think you're able to share this with us so readily becuase you know more or less the reaction you'll get from us. However, should you turn off the TV and share with your wife, you probably have NO idea what her reaction will be. And that can be quite terrifying. Perhaps you're afraid she'll laugh or show indifference.
And speaking from personal experience, saying things like you don't want to live without her, etc., is embarassing. It is for me at least, and I'm not sure why. I suppose it shows weakness and possibly neediness.
I think you should start with handholding. Instead of recoiling if she takes your hand, YOU initiate this. She will probably be shocked and more than likely quite pleased.
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