Posted by alexandra_k on December 9, 2004, at 21:10:40
In reply to Re: Romance... » alexandra_k, posted by Toph on December 9, 2004, at 19:58:11
But the whole point of romance is that it is not just about sex, it is about intimacy too!!!
If you go out for a couple of drinks and dinner then you can talk over dinner. Or if you go to a play or something then you will have something to talk about. I don't know, is there anywhere you used to go or anything you used to do that you could do again (and I'm not talking a drive by to an old place you had spontaneous sex here). Talk to her.
And when thats going well tell her how much she means to you. And how you feel like you have been drifting apart and how you want to be closer to her. Tell her it's not just about sex, its about intimacy too. All the stuff you are telling us, tell her in a genuine way. She is probably just dying to hear you say it. Sounds like she thinks you don't find her attractive anymore - but you do, you are just having trouble letting her know that.
This kind of stuff is hard for guys isn't it...
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