Posted by Tabitha on July 27, 2012, at 23:28:38
In reply to Re: Wanting to terminate, again, posted by Willful on July 27, 2012, at 22:43:41
Thanks for the perspectives Dinah, Sleepygirl, and Willful. Sometimes I think I hit the point of diminishing returns back around 2000. Seems every time I'm really ready to stop, she'll tell me something new and useful and I get convinced there's a new phase in store.
I didn't think of the chakra/diamond thing as a boundary issue. I used to be somewhat open to intuitive-based beliefs like that, but in the last few years I've really wanted to discard irrational beliefs. Never considered I had a right to have my beliefs respected. I'm sure she uses less of that stuff with me than others, but it still keeps coming up. I assume she truly does believe in it and sees my unwillingness as some kind of resistance that she needs to keep trying to push against.
I did clear up the money issue, just called and said I'm not comfortable and annoyed that she'd assumed it without discussing it. She said of course she'll write me a check. Thanks for validating my anger on that one.
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