Posted by Twinleaf on December 30, 2011, at 9:01:15
In reply to Re: Thinking about.........termination......., posted by pegasus on December 30, 2011, at 8:05:50
Actually, what I had in mind was a two-year period of gradually decreasing visits, with occasional visits after that. I don't want to do it in a way that causes a lot of stress or sadness, because that would be like the first abandonment. He has actually said that he thinks I will "do best" if I can have some contact indefinitely.
He is away for the holidays now, but I plan on talking about it in January. He may say that it's too soon! Thanks so much for your thoughts, Scott and Peg - I'll let you know what happens.
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