Posted by BayLeaf on February 8, 2011, at 5:53:04
In reply to plainly stated, posted by obsidian on February 7, 2011, at 22:26:27
grief is painful. using/drinking will numb that temporarily, but you'll need to process this pain eventually anyhow. i'd say try to stay sober and walk through the grief, not around it. i've done it both ways. neither is easy, but sober is by far much safer emotionally.
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