Posted by Solstice on November 4, 2010, at 16:00:26
In reply to Confused about what this means! Worried! Panicky!, posted by Anemone on November 4, 2010, at 15:37:51
Hi Anemone -
There's no way to know what happened without asking. Why don't you call her and say "I sent a check to you in the mail, but it came back - so I want to make sure I got your address right." That way, you're getting the answer you need with out asking outright if you're being rejected. The scenarios I would speculate about are that perhaps her address has changed and you didn't know, or the post office made a mistake. I can't imagine a therapist getting an envelope from a client that has hearts on it and returning it because they didn't like the heart! If she has a problem with it, (and I'd be surprised if she did), she'd most likely bring it up next time you see her.
So I think your anxiety deserves your attention - and giving her a call to let her know the check was returned will settle it for you.
Oh.. and I'm sort of new too - so welcome!
Solstice
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