Posted by emmanuel98 on March 2, 2010, at 20:23:57
In reply to Re: Reassurance » annierose, posted by antigua3 on March 2, 2010, at 18:13:21
One thing I should add is that my T never said he cared about me without my bringing it up. He didn't offer reassurance unless I asked for it. You can't expect people to know what you want unless you ask. At the beginning, I couldn't ask. I was like a baby who wanted my needs attended to without my being able to ask. This is because I wasn't cared for as a baby. But now I'm an adult, not a baby, and I have to ask for what I need.
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